Tuesday, March 4, 2025

Setting and Attaining Health Goals


Hi Readers, My physician forwarded this article, a common-sense approach to resolutions and attaining health goals. Lots of great strategies here for a healthier and longer life! Retaining independence is key to successful aging and that begins with setting realistic goals and sticking to them. Easier said than done, as it is only March and I have already abandoned two of mine. AgeDoc


How to Set Health Goals (and actually achieve them!)
By Alan Reisinger, III, MD, FACP

Can you believe it’s already March? By now, most new year’s resolutions have been forgotten or abandoned. In fact, research shows that for most people, new year’s resolutions either aren’t that effective or are never made in the first place. According to PEW Research, only 30% of Americans made resolutions last year. As we get older, resolutions become less common: nearly half of young adults make resolutions, compared to only a fifth of adults over 50. No matter their demographic, though, there is one major commonality among those who set New Year’s resolutions: 80 percent are health-related.

It is apparent that while most people have either given up on annual resolutions or never made them in the first place, the vast majority of Americans have a desire to improve their health. The exciting news is that you can set and achieve your health goals during any month of the year. But it takes a lot more than simply “resolving” to do something. So, what is effective? There are proven methods of achieving your health goals, even if you’ve tried and failed for months, years or even decades. Here are my five tips for setting and achieving your health goals.
 

1. What’s your “why?”

Figuring out the goal itself is often the easy part. Common health goals include losing weight, exercising regularly and lowering blood pressure. But to actually accomplish this, you need proper motivation, and that starts with determining why you picked that goal.
 

You need to know and remember why a goal is so important to you and how it will specifically benefit you — your overall health, your relationships, your education, your mobility, your sleep, etc.

What inspired you to set your health goal? If your goal is to lose weight and increase your strength, is it so you can pick up your granddaughter again? Is it so you can keep playing a sport you love? Take a vacation with your partner/friend? Do you want to resume a hobby you had to quit after an injury or chronic illness made it physically impossible, like hiking or playing guitar? Before you figure out how you’ll achieve your goal, figure out why you want to.

 2. Build your day around your goal.  

It seems like common sense that if you’re attempting to form a new habit — such as exercising or cooking healthy meals — you need to find the time and space in your day to do so. But the most effective way to stick with your new habits is to do the opposite: Build your routine around your new habit instead of the other way around. When you start each day, write down the specifics of what you’re going to do to accomplish your goal today: what time you’re going to do it, how long you’re going to spend doing it and anything you need to take care of or remember in order to make it happen. You can write this in a journal, in your phone’s notes app, your computer or whatever is easiest for you. 

Consistency is key. Let’s say your goal is to exercise every day for at least 20 minutes. By trying to squeeze in exercise between work, picking up your kids from school, grocery shopping and doing laundry, it becomes an afterthought. Instead, you need to make exercise the most important part of your day.

Bonus tip: the most efficient way to do this is to start your day by exercising. As soon as you get up, exercise immediately. It will be hard at first, but it will get easier each day. And you will feel immediate benefits: Your most important task of the day will be accomplished almost immediately, leaving the rest of your day free for everything else (without the pressure of whether you’ll find time to exercise hanging over your head all day). 

3. Learn about the science of habit formation.  

There is a wealth of information available about the science of habit formation — and you don’t have to be a scientist to understand it. I have learned a lot from several popular science books that were written with the intention of helping the average person make major changes. 

For practical, enlightening, potentially life-changing guidance on how to achieve your goals and commit to major changes, I recommend checking out books like The Power of HabitAtomic Habits and Zen Habits. 

4. Allow yourself to fail.  

This might sound counterintuitive. Wait a minute, Dr. Reisinger, you may be thinking, I thought the whole point of this was to help me achieve my goals! Whaddaya mean I should let myself fail?! That’s a fair question! Let me get more specific: You will not be perfect as you embark on this journey to improve your health and accomplish an important goal. You will have setbacks. When you do have a setback, it is imperative that you don’t beat yourself up and get back on the horse. 

Accept that progress won’t be linear. You might be perfect for a whole month and then neglect your goal for two weeks because you go on vacation. That’s okay! It’s not actually failing if you get back to it. 

Now that you know a little more about how to set yourself up for success, I challenge you to start right now. The process of achieving your goal will entail taking one or two small bites at a time. Make one small change, wait a few weeks, then make the next change. This will help you avoid getting overwhelmed, burning out and giving up. 

What small step can you take today? You could spend 10-15 minutes determining your “why.” You could schedule an appointment with your physician to discuss a plan for your health goal. Or you could [insert your own personal small step here]. 

What are you going to do today to set yourself up for a healthy future?

 

Sunday, March 2, 2025

March and April Events!!

 



“Life and aging are the greatest gifts that we could possibly ever have.” Cicely Tyson, age 96. (1924-2021).

 


Hi Readers, AgeDoc here. I want to thank Dr. Harry “Rick” Moody from Fielding Graduate University for forwarding these topics of interest related to aging. I hope you are able to access one or more of these fantastic opportunities!

Are you working in the field of aging? Are you thinking about making a career change and interested in working with older adults but don’t know where to start? If so, consider earning a certification from the Society of Certified Senior Advisors. I have been affiliated with them since 2007. Here is a link to find out more about this incredible organization! https://www.csa.us/about-society-of-certified-senior-advisors/

 

BOOKS OF INTEREST

 

THE LONGEVITY IMPERATIVE: How to Build a Healthier and More Productive Society to Support Our Longer Lives, by Andrew J. Scott (Basic Books, 2024).

 

JOURNEYS OF LIFE: Engaging the Work of Thomas R. Cole, edited by Nathan Carlin and Kate de Medeiros (Wipf & Stock, 2024).

 

AGING A–Z: Concepts Toward Emancipatory Gerontology, by Carroll Estes (Routledge, 2019).

 

 

WEBSITES TO SEE

 

Conscious Aging. See the newsletter from the Center for Conscious Eldering

https://www.centerforconsciouseldering.com/2024/01/10/enjoy-...

 

Reframing Aging. The Frameworks introduces critical thinking in how we imagine the human life-course:

https://www.frameworksinstitute.org/issues/aging/ ;

 

Films on Aging: Alphabetical List of 150+ Films, at:

https://www.moviesaboutaging.org/printable-resources-on-agin...

 

 

March/April COMING EVENTS

 

CREATIVITY: Arts-in-Healthcare and Creative Aging (Mar. 3-4, 2025, Virtual) Comprehensive training from the Creative Institute. Details and registration at:

https://static1.squarespace.com/static/62a16804a6b68b09daa8a...

 

INTRODUCTION TO SAGE-ING. (Mar. 4, 2025, 1 to 2 pm, EST)

Introduction to Sage-ing International. No cost webinar.

https://www.sage-ing.org/events/introduction-to-sageing-inte...

 

TAKING THE LEAP FROM ANXIETY TO ENTHUSIASM: (Mar. 4, 2025, 11:00 am to 12:30 pm, EST) Zoom webinar on aging not as a problem to solve but as a spiritual choice, with Carol Orsborn, author of Spiritual Aging: Weekly Reflections for Embracing Life. Sponsored by Sage-ing International:

https://www.sage-ing.org/events/spiritual-aging-taking-the-l...

 

WINDOWS ON AGEISM: (Mar. 12, 2-4 pm EDT). In-person in N. Y. City, Viewing and chat with the curator of the NYU Windows exhibit, "What About Age?” Free. After the chat, the group meets for a social at a nearby cafĂ©. Hosted by PSS Life! University. Details and registration at: https://psslifeu.matrixlms.com/visitor_catalog_class/show/16...

 

AGING: Peril and Promise. Aging on the Edge of Change (Mar. 13-14, 2025, Milwaukee, Wisconsin). Keynote Speaker is Anne Basting, creator of the TimeSigns.org project. For details on registration, visit:

https://abbi.advantageanywhere.com/_viewemail_methods.aspx?vk=SJC-497-64111-7554-465189-09592020250113

 

QIGONG and TAO: A Sage’s Journey into Qigong and the Tao Te Ching (Mar. 19, 2025, 11:00 am - 12:30 pm, EST). 6-part series covering practice of movement, breathing and meditation exercises with the wisdom of the Tao Te Ching.  Sponsored by Sage-ing International. Details and registration at:

https://www.sage-ing.org/events/a-sages-journey-into-qigong-...

 

AGING, SPIRITUALITY, AND INTUITION. (Mar. 20, 2025 11:00 am - 12:30 pm,. EST). Mary Francis Drake shares stories of spiritual and intuitive experiences included in her newest book, Take Heart: Encouragement from the Visions; Visitations of a Modern Mystic. Purpose of sharing experiences is to validate and to discuss techniques, times, and places to connect to invisible realms. Sponsored by Sage-ing International. Details and registration at:

https://www.sage-ing.org/events/aging-spirituality-and-inten...

 

PURPOSE: Purposeful Living Throughout Life (Mar. 25, 2025, 12 noon EST).

Interview with Richard Leider, preeminent Executive-Life Coach, founder of the Inventure Group and pioneer of the global purpose movement. The new 4th edition of his book, The Power of Purpose, is discussed in this interview. The book includes a new chapter on Becoming a Purposeful Leader and offers a path to living a life of meaning and fulfillment. Sign up for this interview begins by March 18 at www.revolutionizeretirement.com. ; Participants will receive a recording link after the call. Direct questions to Dori Mintzer at dorianmintzer@gmail.com.

 

SPIRITUAL AGING: Why is it so Hard to Love Unconditionally? (Apr. 1, 2025, 11 am to 12:30 pm, EST). With Carol Orsborn, weekly reflections for embracing life, based on her just-published book, Spiritual Aging. For details and registration see:

https://www.sage-ing.org/events/spiritual-aging-why-is-it-so...

 

CHOOSING CONSCIOUS ELDERHOOD (Apr. 9-15, 2025). Discovering purpose, passion, and the call to service in the elder third of life At Hope Springs Institute, in the Appalachian foothills of Southern Ohio. 10 Weekly Zoom Sessions, from the Center for Conscious Eldering. For information, including bios of the retreat guides,lodging, costs, and registration, see: <a href="http://www.centerforconsciouseldering.com" class="redactor-autoparser-object">www.centerforconsciouseldering.com

 

AMERICAN SOCIETY ON AGING Annual Scientific Meeting 

(Apr. 24-25, 2025, Orlando, Florida)

https://www.asaging.org/on-aging

 

SAGE-ING: The Gathering. Connections and Conversation in Community

(Aug. 13-17, 2025, Loveland, CO). Details at:

https://api.neonemails.com/emails/content/pZE7SSAy8FbCKvia-xD2ENHtEslHPCpBSqJj1abY_5w=

 

 

 

 


Friday, February 7, 2025

Too Much Sitting May Harm Your Health

 




Hi Readers, I was recently forwarded this article by a colleague and I am sharing it with you. Sitting for too long is harmful to your health. What is too much? Keep reading. At the end of Tiberian’s article, is my article on the same topic posted here on my blog on March 23, 2015, almost ten years ago! At the end of this blog post is a picture of how sitting incorrectly at a workstation harms the body. There is also a link to download that infographic. I know I am sitting a little taller typing this post! AgeDoc

Too Much Sitting May Harm Your Health

By Janet Tiberian, MA, MPH, CHES     Janet Tiberian is a health educator. She has more than 25 years’ experience in chronic disease prevention and therapeutic exercise.

Many people spend hours of their day sitting at a workstation – for work, to manage personal finances or engage in a hobby like gaming. That sewing desk, painter’s easel and work bench are also workstations.

But sitting for hours at a time can take a toll on your health. In fact, about 15 years ago, long-term sitting became recognized as a public health issue. It was even deemed as “the new smoking” because studies found long-term sitting raised the risk for vascular problems, high blood pressure, unhealthy cholesterol levels, heart disease, type 2 diabetes, dementia, obesity, cancer and back pain.

“Long-term sitting can interfere with proper metabolic function, slow circulation, promote feelings of exhaustion and cause postural complications and musculoskeletal issues,” says Bernard Kaminetsky, MD.

If you’re sitting between 8 and 11 hours a day, you’re at high risk for these conditions, while sitting between 4 and 8 hours provides a moderate risk and less than 4 hours is considered low risk. Fortunately, you can help alleviate the negative effects of sitting with these tips.

        Use Ergonomic Principles

Ergonomics is the study of people’s efficiency in their working environment. Understanding its principles can help prevent aches, pains and fatigue, as well as help you work more proficiently. Ergonomic measurements vary among people, but you can try these steps from University of California at Los Angeles (UCLA):  https://ergonomics.ucla.edu/office-ergonomics/4-steps-set-your-workstation

Stand Up Periodically

Whether you’re sitting for periods of time to work, write in a journal, knit or even drive, it’s important to incorporate moments of standing in your day. Standing helps lower blood sugar, stress, fatigue and risk factors for heart disease. That said, if your work involves sitting, make sure you stand up at least every 30 minutes. When standing, use proper posture, which means you should:

  • Stand up straight.
  • Align your ears over your shoulders. 
  • Gently glide your chin back straight.
  • Align your shoulders over your hips.
  • Pull in your stomach.
  • Place your weight predominantly on the balls of your feet.
  • Keep your feet about shoulder-width apart.

Many activities can be performed while standing. This is why some people opt for standing desks. If you’re interested in using a standing desk, but your company doesn’t provide them or you don’t feel like purchasing one for your home, use a high table or counter and position your workstation according to your height. Click this link for recommendations on setting up your sitting to standing workstation:  https://www.uclahealth.org/safety/ergonomics/office-ergonomics/sitting-standing-workstations

Keep in mind that prolonged standing also has health drawbacks, such as muscle soreness, fatigue, slower reaction time and it may increase the risk for circulatory issues like deep vein thrombosis and varicose veins. This is why you may want a sit-to-stand desk, a type of workstation with both sitting and standing options.

        Walk Around for Few Minutes

Whether you’re sitting for hours at a workstation or on a couch to knit, watch television or doomscroll on social media, you should get up and walk around for five minutes, every half hour. Walking 5 minutes for every 30 minutes of prolonged sitting helps offset many of the harmful effects associated with sitting, according to a study published in Medicine & Science in Sports & Exercise.  

 

My original article posted here on 3/23/15, almost ten years ago! The material is still relevlent, although I am wearing an Apple Watch now instead of a Jawbone UP that reminds me to get up and walk. Ah, the information age! AgeDoc

Sitting Too Much Each Day May Result in Disability or Early Death

Hi Readers,

Everyone knows that sitting too much and being a couch potato is generally not good for health, right?  Well, the term, “couch potato” brings to mind an overweight, lazy person on the sofa eating fatty snacks and watching television.  However, scientists conducted a study and found that people who sit most of the day have an increased risk of developing heart disease, diabetes, cancer, and shortened lifespans.  Published in the peer-reviewed scholarly journal, Annals of Internal Medicine, researcher Aviroop Biswas and his research team reviewed 47 health studies [a meta-analysis] and found that people who sit most of the day are 24% more likely to die from these conditions compared to their counterparts who are more active during the day even when they exercise an hour or more daily! An hour of exercise daily does not mitigate all of that sitting. 

So what is “sitting too much?”  Biswas defined it as sitting from 8-12 hours daily.  That places a person at great risk and his team recommended that sitting should be limited to 4-5 hours maximum per day.  People who sit at a computer/desk all day and professional drivers may be at the greatest risk because their occupation requires sitting. The researchers found that sitting compresses vital organs and impacts metabolism negatively.  It may result in leg disorders from poor circulation, muscle degeneration, organ damage, spinal damage, soft bones, diabetes, and cancer.  What is a virtual professor to do?

The experts suggest reducing time spent sitting by watching television standing up, taking walks or walk around, and gradually reduce sedentary sitting time each day.  Currently, I wear a Jawbone UP that reminds me to get up and move every hour.  I may have to invest in one of those standing desks! See attached diagram of sitting hazards with suggestions for how to sit when you must sit.  AgeDoc

References:

The below infographic shows how the brain, back, organs, muscles, and limbs can all be affected simply by lack of movement. Download the infographic, print it out and hang it by your desk as a reminder to get up and move!

Berkowitz, B., & Clark, P. (2014, January 20).  The health hazards of sitting.  Don’t just sit there! Poster.  Washington Post online. 

Biswas, A., Oh, P.I., Faulkner, G.E., Bajaj, R.R., Silver, M.A., Mitchell, M.S., Atler, D.A. (2015).  Sedentary time and its association with risk for disease incidence, mortality, and hospitalization in adults.  Annals of Internal Medicine, 162(2), 123-132. 

U.S. National Library of Medicine. National Institutes of Health.  (2015, January 19).  Too much sitting can be deadly- even if you exercise, review finds.  Retrieved from http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/news/fullstory_150482.html

 


What is Your Biological Age?


Hi Readers, My physician sent this article to me and asked me to share it with my readers. The original article had medical nomenclature and I edited it for use by general audiences. 

Do you know that we have two ages? Your chronological age (your birthdate), and your relative or biological age based on your lifestyle? I hope you will take the short quiz I have attached and find out YOUR bio age. 

According to my bio quiz, I am seven years younger than my chronological age. Woowoo!! AgeDoc


What’s Your Biological Age?


By Andrea Klemes, DO FACE (Doctor of Osteopathy, Fellow of the American College of Endocrinology) Excerpted and Edited by AgeDoc

Everyone ages. It’s a process that none of us can avoid despite how well we care for ourselves. There are two basic types of aging – chronological and biological. And while you experience both, one type of aging can happen faster than the other.

Chronological aging is what we think of when we think of aging. It’s the age on your driver’s license. Biological aging, however, is the amount of cellular and tissue damage that’s accumulated over time.

Scientists have used years of genetic information, advanced molecular biology testing and machine learning to establish biomarkers or “clocks” that define biological age. If a person is chronologically 60 years old but has biomarkers of a 50-year-old, their biological age may be closer to 50. And of course, a 60-year-old with biomarkers of a 70-year-old is considered biologically 70. This helps explain why people of the same age may look, move or just seem older or younger than their chronological age.

Biological aging is complicated – and so is the science behind it. Your doctor is your best resource for understanding how you’re aging and for guiding you on the steps to slow down your biological clock and improve your health. Make sure you talk to your doctor before making any major lifestyle changes. Your doctor knows your health history and can help you pursue healthier choices at an appropriate pace.

Take the FREE quiz to immediately find out your bio age! https://drkarafitzgerald.outgrow.us/drkarafitzgerald-6

Your Body Ages at Different Rates
Instead, parts of your body, like organs, age on their own timeframe. This is probably why some people develop diseases earlier in life. The concept has led to a new area of research referred to as “organ aging,” which involves studying how quickly different parts of the body age and how it affects our overall health and longevity. Despite all the research, the science behind biological aging is still pretty new – and testing, which can range from free online surveys to expensive DNA tests, may not produce accurate results.

Slowing the Biological Aging Process 

The good news is we don’t need to know our biological age to slow down the biological aging process and even reverse it. In fact, you probably already know the things that you can improve to get to a younger biological age. Here are seven tips that can help: 

Get plenty of exercise.  Exercise helps us manage our cholesterol levels and lower high blood pressure, which helps our hearts. It can even thin our blood, which may lessen the risk for blood clots. Even if our chronological ages are high, exercise can still positively impact our biological age.

Maintain a healthy weight. This can also extend our biological age. In fact, gaining weight as we age is associated with poor health outcomes. Being overweight also puts pressure on our heart, raises our risk for multiple chronic conditions including type 2 diabetes, hypertension and cancer and makes getting around harder. Obesity may lead to loss of independence in old age.

Quit smoking. Nothing increases biological age quite as much as smoking. One study found that epigenic aging is directly linked to smoking. Exposure to cigarette smoke harms our DNA, increases our risk for cancer, and damages our heart.

Our diet also profoundly impacts how we age biologically. Studies show that people who eat a diet rich in fruits and vegetables, whole grains, nuts and legumes and healthy proteins like fish live longer and healthier lives. Studies have also shown that what we eat has a positive influence on bio aging.  

Controlling our stress can also help reduce bio aging. If you have high levels of stress or anxiety, let your doctor know. They can help you manage it, and hopefully, slow your biological aging.

Like stress, not enough sleep is also linked with a higher biological age and a shorter lifespan. Lack of sleep can interfere with the body’s natural repair process, and too much sleep can have a negative effect, which is why doctors recommend you sleep between seven and nine hours a night.

Finally, alcohol consumption is also linked to biological aging. Cutting back or eliminating alcohol altogether can cut years off your biological clock.

Biological aging is complicated – and so is the science behind it. Your doctor is your best resource for understanding how you’re aging and for helping you take the steps to slow down your biological clock and improve your health. Make sure you talk to your doctor before making any major lifestyle changes. Your doctor knows your health history and can help you make healthy choices at an appropriate pace.

 


Monday, December 23, 2024

Your Aging Manual

 



Mayo Clinic on Healthy Aging: An Easy and Comprehensive Guide to Keeping Your Body Young, Your Mind Sharp and Your Spirit Fulfilled.  Hardcover – January 9, 2024

by Nathan K. LeBrasseur Ph.D. (Author), Christina Chen M.D. (Author)

According to the authors, “Healthy aging isn’t simply a roll of the dice. How people age is a choice.” 

Readers, YOU control how you age. Eating a healthy diet, abstinence from alcohol, exercise, seat belts, controlling your blood pressure, vaccines, stress management, getting your diagnostics on time, and having a strong social network are all important elements of aging. And YOU control most of what you do. Sure, it's a lot to manage, but YOU are worth it. 

Aging in the USA takes place within a fragmented and inefficient acute-care medical system. It means that YOU identify you are not feeling well, you see a healthcare provider, and you do or do not recover, depending upon the level of care and how much you are willing to self-advocate. This type of system is what I call "waiting for the oil light to come on." We don't treat our cars this way! So to circumvent negative outcomes, it is imperative that older adults remain committed to maintenance, just like you do with your car. 

If you ask Santa for one book this year, this is the book. This is your aging manual. AgeDoc


December and January Resources

 



Thank you, Harry “Rick” Moody, for sending these resources to gerontologists each month. We truly appreciate you!  AgeDoc

 

THE TIME OF OUR LIVES

“Time Flies By Faster As We Get Older” at:

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/time-perception-aging_l_63973...


“The Mystery of Time” a dialogue and podcast from Emergence magazine, at:

https://emergencemagazine.org/podcast/

 

SPIRITUAL AGING

 

      The Sufis say, “Be in the world, but not of it.”  For those of us growing older, some degree of detachment is necessary and even desirable. But that is not the same as ignoring the wider world. The political turmoil in America since the recent election makes many of us sad, but it’s possible to find a spiritual path, whether young or old:

          “Even our most respected spiritual leaders know that accepting not only the way things are but our own limitations can be easier said than done.  Spiritual advancement does not ensure that we won’t feel sad sometimes, that we won’t become frustrated. But after we’ve had a good cry, we can simply get on with it.         

          When the world spins out of control, of course you should do what you can to rectify your part in things.  This includes being honest about your limitations and forgiving yourself and life for being what it is and is not.

          You don’t have to feel happy about this, but there’s a difference between feeling bad—and feeling bad about yourself.”

From Spiritual Aging: Weekly Reflections for Embracing Life, by Carol Orsborn (Park Street Press, 2024). For more on this book, see: https://tinyurl.com/2u7kttmn

 


 

 

 

A LITTLE LAUGHTER

 

A friend asked Turkish folk hero Mullah Nasruddin how old he was.

“Forty.” replied the Mullah.

The friend said, “But you said the same thing two years ago!”

“Yes” replied the Mullah, “I always stand by what I have said.”

 

 

BOOKS OF INTEREST

 

 

THE GIFT OF A LONG LIFE: Personal Stories on the Aging Experience.  (The Birren Center, 2024). Inspired by Guided Autobiography:

https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Long-Life-Experience-Collection/...;

 

THE AGE OF WAITING: Heart Traces & Song Lines in the Anthropocene, by Douglas J. Penick (Arrowsmith Press, 2021).

 

CRITICAL HUMANITIES AND AGEING, edited by Marlene Goldman, Kate de Medeiros, and Thomas Cole (Routledge, 2024).

 

 

 

WEBSITES TO SEE

 

Caregiving: Falling into Mindfulness. A Zen Buddhist approach to caregiving: https://zencaregiving.org/

 

Spiritual Aging. Are you “inconveniently awake?” Others are drawn in this direction, too:

https://spiritualaging.substack.com/?r=1d4ci&utm_campaign=subscribe-page-share-screen&utm_medium=web

 


 

THE TIME OF OUR LIVES

“Time Flies By Faster As We Get Older” at:

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/time-perception-aging_l_63973...

 

“The Mystery of Time” a dialogue and podcast from Emergence magazine, at:

https://emergencemagazine.org/podcast/

 

 

SPIRITUAL AGING

 

      The Sufis say “Be in the world, but not of it.”  For those of us growing older, some degree of detachment is necessary and even desirable. But that is not the same as ignoring the wider world. The political turmoil in America since the recent election makes many of us sad, but it’s possible to find a spiritual path, whether young or old:

          “Even our most respected spiritual leaders know that accepting not only the way things are but our own limitations can be easier said than done.  Spiritual advancement does not ensure that we won’t feel sad sometimes, that we won’t become frustrated. But after we’ve had a good cry, we can simply get on with it.         

          When the world spins out of control, of course you should do what you can to rectify your part in things.  This includes being honest about your limitations and forgiving yourself and life for being what it is and is not.

          You don’t have to feel happy about this, but there’s a difference between feeling bad—and feeling bad about yourself.”

From Spiritual Aging: Weekly Reflections for Embracing Life, by Carol Orsborn (Park Street Press, 2024). For more on this book, see: https://tinyurl.com/2u7kttmn

 

 

 

 

A LITTLE LAUGHTER

 

A friend asked Turkish folk hero Mullah Nasruddin how old he was.

“Forty.” replied the Mullah.

The friend said, “But you said the same thing two years ago!”

“Yes” replied the Mullah, “I always stand by what I have said.”

 

 

BOOKS OF INTEREST

 

 

THE GIFT OF A LONG LIFE: Personal Stories on the Aging Experience.

(The Birren Center, 2024). Inspired by Guided Autobiography:

https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Long-Life-Experience-Collection/...;

 

THE AGE OF WAITING: Heart Traces & Song Lines in the Anthropocene,

by Douglas J. Penick (Arrowsmith Press, 2021).

 

CRITICAL HUMANITIES AND AGEING, edited by Marlene Goldman, Kate de Medeiros, and Thomas Cole (Routledge, 2024).

 

 

WEBSITES TO SEE

 

Caregiving: Falling into Mindfulness. A Zen Buddhist approach to caregiving:

https://zencaregiving.org/

 

Spiritual Aging. Are you “inconveniently awake?” Others are drawn in this direction, too:

https://spiritualaging.substack.com/?r=1d4ci&utm_campaign=subscribe-page-share-screen&utm_medium=web

 

Artificial Intelligence and Gerontology. “Google’s AI chatbot tells about a student needing help with homework to ‘please die’ “ As it happens, the student who needed help here is a gerontology student. Maybe AI needs help, too?

https://www.tradingview.com/news/cointelegraph:4e20ec9a8094b...

 

Setting and Attaining Health Goals

Hi Readers, My physician forwarded this article, a common-sense approach to resolutions and attaining health goals. Lots of great strategies...