I found a fascinating article in the September 2013
issue of Journal of Applied Gerontology. This
study was funded by the National Institute on Aging.
They found that appointed or proxy transfers were
positive, while transfers that were “unwanted” or “taken from” them were
negative. Overhelping and underhelping
were also perceived as negative.
When older adults move into assisted living for
increased level of care, family members, close friends, family, and extended
family usually help oversee care, manage money, manage disposing of property
and furnishings, and manage medical care.
The Morgan and Brazda (2013) study found that of the
77 participants, 16 chose their assisted living facility. This proactive approach was described as
positive: The older adults who chose their facility described feeling in
control of their situation. The study
also found that proxy control
resulted in positive outcomes. Proxy
control is relinquishment of some personal control to an intermediary to help
achieve specific desired outcomes. Among
the participants, when proxy control was exercised, they expressed empowerment
in the face of diminishing capacity.
Proxy control was not always given to grown
children. Some of the participants who
had grown children chose others including close friends, neighbors, in-laws,
extended family [quasi-family], and siblings.
One older man without children chose his baby brother as proxy. A retired schoolteacher without children
chose her “adopted granddaughters,” former students now in their 50’s who
helped her choose the assisted living facility, settle in, dispose of some
furnishings, and move in. She gave
financial proxy to her longtime friend.
Another participant spoke to his lawyer first and then gave proxy
control to his daughter-in-law.
Older adults who made an active choice to delegate by
proxy expressed a sense of control and mastery over their lives. However, older adults who perceived that
control was “taken” or “seized” from them had negative reactions about their
living arrangements and preferences.
This study suggests that planning ahead is the best
strategy for retaining autonomy when living independently is no longer an
option.
Source:
Morgan, L.A., & Brazda, M.A. (2013). Transferring control to others: Process and
meaning for older adults in assisted living.
Journal of Applied Gerontology, 32(6).
651-668.